Why the Internet is becoming less and less popular with Chinese parents

teenagers, the flowers of the whole age

"Adolescents are the flowers of the future of the motherland", in the hearts of Chinese parents, the status of children above all else, the eyes of the community has been focused on young people, any thing that happens to young people, will trigger amplification effect, cause the attention of the whole society.

And some time ago, according to parents reported, "learning and thinking about the network school" APP there are vulgar videos, instigation of early love and other content. As a result, the Office interviewed the relevant person in charge.

Learning to respond to this, said that after investigation, the release of the above video is the user's personal behavior, now learn and think has made changes and increased content review efforts, users upload video need to be manually audited and only the user can see.

From the wave of national reports, to the frequent game recharge disputes, to this study and thinking about the alleged early love affair. Behind the frequent voices of Chinese parents are both expressing their concerns and questioning everything in the Internet age.

To please the Internet of an era seems to be hard to please Chinese parents.

From talking about color change to talking about mesh color change

If there's any doubt that it's a post-90s collective memory, then "Where do I come from?" "Absolutely it can be included."

According to a survey of 20,000 reports by the Center for Educational Science and Technology Research and Development of the China Academy of Educational Sciences, 27% of Chinese parents have never given their children any education about "sex", including the most basic "gender cognitive education".

Behind the thought-provoking data is the inexorable nature of Chinese parents about "sex", so much so that post-90s questions about the origin of their original life will be all sorts of nonsensical answers.

So what about sex education after 00? I n 2019, a sexual conduct questionnaire for students at Peking University showed that nearly 45 percent of 18th-grade undergraduates (after 00) did not receive any formal sex education. That's still the case at Peking University, and the rest of the universities can see it.

In sex education, in addition to the most direct intimacy, emotional germination is also one of the most worrying situations for Chinese parents. W ill there be a favorite opposite sex? W ill there be early love? W ill you delay your grades because of a mess of emotional problems outside of your studies? This extension of "generalization" is also of concern to Chinese parents.

Sex has always been a taboo subject in China, and this cultural phenomenon does not seem to distinguish between ages. Now the popularity of the Internet, but also make Chinese parents gradually from "talking about color change" to "talk about color change."

"The Internet is so mixed up now that some of the information is really not suitable for children." This concept has gradually become a consensus among Chinese parents.

According to a social survey, nearly 76% of Chinese parents struggle with all kinds of information with "extreme" concern after 00 years when their parents check their mobile phones and read their diaries. But in fact, both cases of sexual assault and abortion rates among adolescents have not declined as Chinese parents pursue extreme behavior.

From the intimate "jumping platform" of a male and female protagonist kissing in a childhood love drama, to the rush to walk past a street adult supply store, to the frantic viewing of their children's browsing history and diaries today, Chinese parents are trying to create an absolute "utopia" for their children to defend the purity of the environment.

Nowadays, all kinds of network pop-up windows are repeatedly banned, and there are many incidents in which children's hearts are harmed by internet pop-up browsing illegal websites, so Chinese parents are right to be cautious about online reporting. The state and society should also clean up the network environment for this purpose.

But in the information age, the use of the Internet is a life scenario that cannot be crossed. While discussing the Internet, Chinese parents should not only appeal to the mere dependence of the country's social forces, but also consider whether families can provide preventive or ex post facto remedies.

Simple scolding or resistance may have a lasting effect, but unhealthy information will always be "spring breeze again." The child's growth is like the Western Day in the Western Travels, the Tang monk takes the most true and purest Buddhist scriptures on earth, but still need to cross the path of demons and monsters of the ninety-eighty-one difficulties.

Asking the God Buddha to take good care of his own "iniquity animals", in the world of western travel will only be heaven and earth, and Sun Wukong before the good faith notice and after the positive remedy, is to protect Tang Sanzang from invasion and infection to obtain the correct law.

Chinese parents need to be comforted more

"Hong cat blue rabbit seven-man biography is too bloody, the ban! O riental god va witch dress exposed, the ban! I induced early love for songworms, it's forbidden! "The demands of Chinese parents have been met.

Since then, this satisfaction has also spread to other areas because of the high sense of comfort. " If you have anything in your heart, you see everything like this." Chinese parents, dressed in war robes, began to fight around the Internet, and finally each one was able to return triumphantly.

It is undeniable that china's "driving stroller" incidents in the current turn-over rate is getting higher and higher, in addition to the more special media and social focus of child sexual assault incidents, the increasing rate of teenage abortion, may be more reflective of the lack of sex education this universal social reality.

According to 2018 China Abortion Data, one-third of unmarried women who ask to have sex occur before the age of 19, 8.9 percent of them in high school, and the minimum age for first sexual intercourse is only 13.

Of these abortions, only 4.4% of unmarried adolescents had the correct knowledge of reproductive health. Only 2.4% of pregnant girls' sexual knowledge comes from their parents.

This is in stark contrast to the negative votes of parents against the Internet.

Behind these abortion data, it's hard to trace the Internet's operation behind it. But the inaction of Chinese parents in sex education is the beginning of every tragedy.

Since Net-a-Porter in 2011, China's censorship of the Internet has been second to none in the world. Since the more aggressive netting investment of 2016, it has been difficult to retrieve non-compliance information within the net through the Internet, except for some of the window-scratching information.

While responding positively to the demands of Chinese parents at the national level, the prospect of a better situation for young people does not seem to have arrived.

Instead, the high rate of teenage abortions has given Chinese parents a slap in the face. The Internet is no longer good to carry this pot, then who will be responsible?

Reflecting on the history of the National Long March War Network, its motivation is the same logic as the behavior of blocking cars at intersections at the time of the college entrance examination.

The difference is that external vehicles can be easily stopped, but in the face of complex inner situations of teenagers, by no means can be avoided by stopping vehicles driving on the internet. After all, physiological and psychological changes in adolescence are the normal growth path of adolescents.

"The network is pure, the heart feels much more down-to-earth!" N o more worrying about exposure to bad information, rest assured! " This is the Chinese parents for the network purification of the real inner picture. Network purification is by no means a mistake, but just "see not to see not upset", can only be parents "cover their ears to steal the bell" of self-hi.

Don't look, don't listen, report down. The follow-up without education is not so much "protection" as comforting Chinese parents.

Does the Internet need introspection?

In the 2018 Survey of Adolescent Sexual Behavior, the incidence of sexual activity among adolescents aged 15-17 was twice that of adolescents in rural areas and twice as high as among urban adolescents. In-depth investigation found that urban parents are better at using the Internet and other modern means to popularize sex education to their children.

So far the truth has come to light, and in the final analysis, education is the answer outside the Internet.

The sensitivity of Chinese parents to the Internet shows that "evil" does lie on the Internet. But in-depth thinking can be found that, in addition to illegal information, "men and women love feelings" is also full of inducing teenagers to fall in love with the "evil."

And the source of this "evil" comes from the adult community, including Chinese parents. I n such cases, the so-called "evil" is difficult to eliminate. They can pop into the eyes of teenagers at any time.

For this reason, there are always evils that cannot be avoided, and it is especially important to teach children how to deal with them. In this regard, Chinese parents need to reflect on the Internet, but also think about how to educate their children instead of blaming the Internet for all this.

Until then, self-education between Chinese parents is more urgent and critical.

In 2017, the pilot distribution of the Curriculum for Sexual Health Education for Primary School Students has caused controversy on the Internet. Many Chinese parents call textbooks "spicy eyes" and call for a halt to textbooks entering the campus.

But in fact, the content of this textbook has been strictly reviewed, on sex education and related sexual assault prevention education is also very systematic and comprehensive, if popularized, will be a chinese sex education history to make a difference.

Even the school-based textbooks reviewed by the relevant departments cannot be accepted by Chinese parents, which has to be said to be both helpless and somewhat ironic. School-based textbooks are so good that it's no surprise that the Internet, which is on the defensive in the face of "evil", is on the defensive.

During the two sessions, Xu Hongling, a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference (CPPCC), suggested holding "parent classes" in the community. B ecoming a parent requires a "certified induction". Although there is room for discussion in practice, this proposal can also be said to be a warning.

In recent years, the surge in child safety incidents, as guardians of Chinese parents have a greater responsibility, in the many problems of young people, Chinese parents need to break through self-awareness in order to better educate their children, in order to live up to the strict control of the state and society and China's Internet profound introspection.

Now the south is in heavy rain, thousands of years ago, the Otsuka water and Dujiangyan taught the ancient working people to block the poor, hope that the chinese Internet full of introspection can let Chinese parents understand, to make the problem clear is better than to cover up a self-deception utopia is better than countless times.

It is the right idea to find problems, face problems and solve problems. I hope that Chinese parents can more fully understand the Internet, everything has advantages and disadvantages, can not be completely denied.